My No-Buy Month, 3.19.25


 Well, this isn't the update on my No-Buy Month that I expected to make. First of all it's not really an update, as the end of the No-Buy Month has come and gone. I had an actual update post started on February 28th, but 2 days later my dad passed away, so it was never finished. Although my dad had been sick for a long time (and he always bounced back from the many near-death experiences he's had over the past 4 years), I'm still processing the fact that he is really gone. 

As far as my No-Buy Month, it was going pretty well until the day after he died and I had a little Target therapy. I told myself as I walked through the door that this was 100% emotional shopping, but I really could not have cared less. I didn't overdo it, but what I bought (a sweater, a tunic top, and a pair of pajama pants) was definitely not a necessity. I'm thinking the fact that I was completely aware of what I was doing, makes it a learning experience, which is not such a bad thing. 

I got right back on track the next day and followed through until the end. The only things that tempted me were magazines, "stuff" for my house and toys for my dog. All trivial things that, in the grand scheme of things, are very easy to let go. 

We didn't have too many of my dad's things to go through, but it still made me come back to the idea of not wanting to leave my kids a bunch of crap to get rid of when I'm gone. So, not only am I watching what I buy, I am also getting rid of a LOT. That will be another post for another day, so stay tuned. 

For now, I just wanted to check in with a life update. 

Be Good. Do Good. 

~ Juli

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